DID YOU KNOW THAT WOMEN DON’T ACTUALLY HAVE TO WEAR A BRA!!!?
I think you would be shocked by the number of people that actually think it’s acceptable to question me on this!
Strangers, acquaintances, family….. all looking me in the eye and saying “Seriously, how can you not wear a bra?”
I know there are many more who just have a good old chat about it behind my back too, so let’s have the chat.
How can I not wear a bra?
I just don’t put one on
I don’t wear underwear either if we really getting close here.
I simply just don’t put that on either.
Oh you mean WHY? Not how! Ok
Well why is because I don’t want to.
And nobody is going to get hurt, die or lose their basic human rights over my decision to not wear a bra because I don’t want to.
I find it fascinating that this concept baffles people.
I get the but I’m offended or disgusted by your nipples your poking through your top and to that I respond. That’s actually your problem not mine.
I get told by some men they are aroused by my pointing nipples.
Once again not my problem.
Ladies, your man gawking at my nipples doesn’t correlate to me sleeping with him. I have a man. I’m really happy with my man. My free nipple doesn’t impact mine or your relationships.
Could you imagine going up to a man and saying “Excuse me but I can see a giant or not so giant bulge in your pants, it’s quite offensive (OR it’s really turning me on).
Maybe you should tuck that under your butt cheeks so that I can feel more comfortable or my husband can feel more comfortable because the fact you have a penis and I can see that you have a penis is just not right according to my arbitrary bullshit rule book that tells me I can decide what’s ok for you to do with your body and clothing.”
Ladies, wear a bra, don’t wear a bra, wear a sports top or don’t. Just realise your choices are yours to make as are mine.
You have no fucking right to discuss my body, my clothing, my lack of clothing or my breasts.
Gentlemen. Be gentlemen. I don’t need to hear that you like my nipples. That you wish your wife freed her nipples. Or any other sexual judgement you made about me based upon my choice to not wear a bra.
Unless someone’s decision directly infringes upon your human rights you don’t get a vote and it’s seriously rude to think you have a say.
Your choices don’t need to be made by other people too to validate your existence.
Just do you.
And save your fucks for things like human rights infringements- there’s plenty of those we could be talking about!